It's easy to break the ice when in school or in college. But it seems ridiculously difficult at the office, especially when you have just begun your career.
When you see someone at the office, what do you do? How do you make yourself at ease?
You: Hello. I'm Mahesh. (Extend your hand for a handshake.)
A: Hello, Mahesh. I'm Arjun. (Accepting and shaking hands.) You must be new around here. I haven't seen you before.
You: Yes, as a matter of fact, I just joined last week.
A: Welcome to the organization! I hope you like it here.
You: Of course! Which department are you in?
A: I am in the marketing department.
You: That's why I haven't seen you around. You must be travelling.
A: Yes, all the time! And which department are you in?
You: I am in the service department. Two doors away from you then.
A: Yes. So we will be seeing one another often and I will probably need your help now and then.
You: Any time! Nice meeting you.
A: Nice meeting you too. Have a great day!
You: You too!
A comfortable feeling is established. No personal questions are asked (like: Are you married?/How is your boss?). Keep it friendly and casual so that you are comfortable bumping into the person in the corridor or in a meeting. Ice breakers are about making someone's acquaintance, not becoming their bosom pal! Make sure you switch on that pleasant smile of yours and establish eye contact.
"Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what a reputation is. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character."Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
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